Philosophy of Life

Following a Wild Horse lifestyle, guided by a victim mentality, our choices and actions are shaped by a philosophy of life deeply rooted in core beliefs. Let’s explore these beliefs and their profound influence on our daily lives:

1. I am alone in a cruel, harsh, and unforgiving world, feeling separated from everybody else.
   This belief paints the world as a hostile place, void of forgiveness and unity. We see ourselves in constant conflict with everything around us. Resulting in the construction of mental fortresses to shield us from the perceived brutality of the world.
2. To obtain safety and peace of mind, I must harshly judge others and be quick to defend myself.
   This belief prompts us to meticulously scrutinise every person and situation, relying solely on past experiences for guidance. This often leads to snap judgements, sweeping statements, and a cutthroat attitude in our pursuit of security and success.
3. My way is the only way because my views, ideas, and beliefs are always undeniably correct.
   Rooted in the need for perfection. This belief demands that we are always right. Leading to a cycle of self-destruction when we fall short of our own impossibly high standards.
4. Attack, defence, and retaliation are the only safety and security that we have.
   Fuelled by a sense of constant danger, this belief perpetuates a cycle of aggression and defence. Draining us of energy and vitality until we are left exhausted and depleted.
5. The past and the future are real and need to be constantly evaluated and worried about.
   This belief breeds constant worry and anxiety. Convincing us that the future is uncertain and the past irreparable. Driving us into a downward spiralling cycle of fear, guilt and despair.
6. Guilt is inescapable because the past is real and cast in stone.
   Stemming from a certainty of past wrongdoings, this belief keeps us trapped in shame and self-doubt. Unable to move forward with confidence.
7. Mistakes call for judgment and punishment, not correction, guidance, and learning.
   This belief stifles growth and self-improvement, leaving little room for mistakes or vulnerability in our quest for perfection.
8. Fear is real! Do not question it in any way.
   Anchored in fear. This belief prevents us from challenging the illusions that keep us trapped in a cycle of anxiety and uncertainty.
9. Other people are responsible for how I feel. The situation is the determiner of my experience.
   This belief perpetuates a sense of victimhood. Blaming external circumstances for our happiness or unhappiness, rather than taking ownership of our emotions and experiences.
10. To make it in this world, I must pit myself against others. Another’s loss is my gain and vice versa.
    Rooted in competition, this belief fosters a mentality of scarcity and comparison, hindering collaboration and cooperation with others.
11. I need something or someone outside of myself to complete, fulfil, and make me happy.
    This belief leads us to seek fulfilment externally, perpetuating a cycle of dissatisfaction and dependency on external sources for happiness.
12. My self-worth is based on how well I can please others.
    This belief erodes our sense of self. Leading to codependency and inner conflict as we strive to meet the expectations of others. Often at the expense of our own well-being.
13. I can control other people’s thoughts and therefore also their behaviours.
    This belief fosters a need for control. Leaving us tense and stressed as we try to manipulate our surroundings to fit our expectations.

In summary, these core beliefs – the foundation of our philosophy of life – shape our self-esteem, our relationships, and our worldview. Driving us into patterns of behaviour that perpetuate a cycle of negativity and dissatisfaction. Breaking free from these beliefs requires introspection, self-awareness, and a willingness to challenge the narratives that hold us back. By embracing a mindset of growth, acceptance, and compassion, we can begin to rewrite the script of our lives. And in doing so, create a more fulfilling and empowered existence.

For a deeper and more thorough understanding, we recommend consulting the warrior’s philosophy of life. Doing so will provide a more well-rounded perspective.